It’s extraordinarily rare but there are moments in our lives that can only be described as a dream. One from which it seems like you are floating above yourself, looking down at the event happening and you’re in complete disbelief that that is you. This is exactly what happened to me when I interviewed our guests for today’s podcast. I have used their therapy method in my private practice to help many people get through situations that were destroying their relationships for many years. These guests have played such a massive role in who I am professionally that saying it was an honor is too weak - It was magical.

On our show today we have Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, internationally-respected couple's therapists, educators, speakers, and New York Times bestselling authors. Together, they have written over 10 books with more than 4 million copies sold, including the timeless classic, “Getting the Love You Want” which has been fully revised for 2019 so go order it right now. Actually wait until after this awesome interview with them and then go to their website www.harvilleandhelen.com to buy all their books. Harville has been on the Oprah Winfrey Show 17 times but he’s stepping up his game by coming on our awesome worldwide podcast right now. That’s right I just said our podcast is better than Oprah’s unbelievably successful show….I’m just saying. Harville and Helen co-created one of the therapy methods I use all the time with clients called Imago Relationship Therapy. This is a form of therapy that focuses on relational counseling to transform any conflict between couples into opportunities for healing and growth. Who doesn’t want healing and growth in a relationship? EVERYONE…right? I could go on and on about all the accomplishments Harville and Helen have achieved together in the last 30 years and tell you how awesome I think they are over and over again, but I have the most amazing interview I can’t wait for you to hear. I hope you are ready to learn from legends in the field of therapy and listen to me try to act and stay cool as I’m fanning out like a teenage girl at the height of Beatlemania.

www.harvilleandhelen.com

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The Shameless Sexual Revolution can only be liberated and spread if we escape the oppressive ideology of the past that has been allowed to corrode the deep passion that lies in all women for the explicit objective to advance a morality that holds NO validity today, yesterday or of anytime in the history of all mankind.  We, women of the world, together shall forge a new path –NOT because we are weak alone - but because we are stronger as a single sharp point of power with one mind, one body and one soul channeling a revolutionary vision of our design and our values.  Are you willing to wait for a better tomorrow to magically appear without sharing in the struggle we all know is required to generate any change in this world?  We, SHAMELESS REBELS, are NOT going to wait one more day. 

We are on the frontlines FIGHTING for all women that love sex.  JOIN US as we destroy the shame that has infected women all over the world, causing needless suffering and providing NO value to women whatsoever.  JOIN US in this FIGHT TODAY!  Go to our website www.makemorelovenotwar.com and email us letting us know you want to be a SHAMELESS REBEL.  Spread our mission by forwarding a link to our podcast to friends and family!  Together, one day, we will celebrate our Victory with all the glory it deserves but for today we FIGHT. 

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All we need is Love Love, Love is all we need. At least that is what The Beatles said. However in international relationships you need more than just Love. You need patience, legal understanding, adaptability, knowledge of cultural differences and much more. We all wish all we needed was love to get through all relationship issues but in the real world road blocks can pop up all around us that make us dig deep to find the strength needed to push beyond just love. In today’s show we explore the difficulties of international relationships and you will be amazed with how tangled this web can be.

On today’s show we interview the brilliant and interesting Amy Waterman for the second time. We interviewed Amy last year about her amazing book “The Pleasure Principle” which is all about woman finding their own pleasure instead of simply suffering for others. I highly suggest reading “The Pleasure Principle” and listening to our podcast with her. On today’s show Amy explains the good and bad things about international relationships. She spent two decades living internationally in many different countries. She knows firsthand the difficulties many people face when they get into a serious international relationship. Amy is a lot of fun and you will love listening to her tell her story.

www.yourbrilliance.com

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Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor. Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise? Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast. If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious.

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If you already get more sex than you can handle, this podcast is not for you. If you understand everything there is to know about women, please turn this podcast off and go find something else to do. The last thing I want to do is waste your time on helping someone with your vast knowledge get more sex from your female partner or have a better relationship with her. You have this covered 100% so we’ll give you a second to gather your things and leave the room. Hum hum hum Ok everyone else….that person is now gone and we don’t have to worry about them soaking up any of the incredible knowledge that’s in this podcast. We have it all to ourselves and trust me you are in for a treat.

On today’s podcast we have the amazing Dr. Rachel Abrams. She owns an integrative Medicine Clinic in Santa Cruz and has been voted “Best Doctor” in Santa Cruz County every year from 2009-2017. How amazing is that? Beyond that remarkable accomplishment….Rachel has written books that I give to my clients all the time. Just listen to these titles and I dare you to resist wanting to know what’s in them. Let me start with “The Multi-Orgasmic Woman” ah….YES Please! “The Multi-Orgasmic Couple” ….YES Please times two. “Taoist Sexual Secrets” HELL YES I want to know some Taoist sexual secrets….I don’t even know what that means but I need to know right now. “The Man’s Guide to Women” this is a must read for all men. This is required reading for many of my therapy clients in my private practice. So if you are a man, go get “The Man’s Guide to Woman” right now and thank me later. Her latest book “Eight Dates” is hot off the presses and flying off bookstore shelves and wearing out Amazon delivery drivers all over America. This book is all about how to improve your relationship through 8 structured dates to help couples understand each other better and connect emotionally and sexually. In other words, if you men let your women know you on a deeper level, you’ll get more sex. Forget the jewelry, forget the expensive holiday; simply buy this book, follow Dr. Rachel’s 8 date method and again you can thank me later. I could go on and on about how awesome Dr. Rachel Abrams is but I know you want me to get to the Doctor herself.

www.doctorrachel.com

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Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!

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Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor. Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise? Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast. If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious.

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Close your eyes. Now think of your family. Your Mom, Your Dad, Your Aunts and Uncles, Grandparents and Great Grandparents. See them in your mind’s eye all in a room looking at you. They are studying every move and action you make. You feel their judging eyes on you all the time. They say they love the way you are but change. They love your uniqueness but conform. They love how you speak your mind but you’re too loud. They love your ambitious drive but don’t be such a go getter. Then to top it all off this royal court brings you the person of THEIR dreams for you to marry and spend the rest of your life with. I know what you’re thinking; my crazy Aunt and Great Grandpa are not going to pick the person I marry and anyways does this even happen in the 21st Century. Surprisingly, arranged marriages are more common than you may think. So do they work? Is that actually a better way than what we currently do? We have answers to these questions in this podcast.

On today’s show we interview Devina Kaur to explore her journey from her traditional upbringing in rural India to her self-discovery that lead her to start the Sexy Brilliant Global Revolution. Devina explains how she spent thirty years trying to be the person everyone else wanted but it only resulted in loneliness, depression and confusion. She provides us with an insight most people have never heard about an arranged marriage and how it affected her. Devina has a unique point of view on marriage and dating which she shares in her online courses like the one coming out on February 25, 2019 called “The Power of Being Single.” Growing up in an environment that told Devina she was not good enough in a direct or indirect way made it difficult for her to love the most important person in her life….herself. We can all learn from how Devina uncovered her true self, true meaning and true love so we can all be Sexy Brilliant.

www.sexybrilliant.com

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Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor. Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise? Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast. If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious.

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Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!

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Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor. Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise? Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast. If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious.

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Benjamin Franklin famously stated, “In this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.” That was true in 1789 when he wrote it and it’s still true today. There may be another absolute certainty that even the horn dog himself Uncle Benny would agree with and that’s that men are always in the mood for sex. We all know that Mr. Franklin was at least a little Randy…..no no no I take that back he was extraordinarily Randy all the time. Does anyone really know what he was up to when he was spending all that time in France? I mean come on now….didn’t France invent the French Kiss and Ménage à trios? For a man like Franklin this must have been heaven on earth especially compared with the puritanical Colonial America of the 1770s. So it’s clear to everyone that old Uncle Benny should’ve said, “The only thing certain in this world is death, taxes and men are always in the mood for sex.” That would’ve been 100% accurate and let’s be honest this would’ve made his quote even more famous. But is that really correct about men always being in the mood? Some say NO!

Our guest today Sarah Hunter Murray, PhD, challenges this notion that men’s unwaveringly high sexual desire is simply a long-held myth that is actually causing relationships needless suffering in her latest book coming out February 12th “Not Always in the Mood: The New Science of Men, Sex, and Relationships”. WHAT….Men are NOT always in the mood for sex? What is she talking about that’s crazy!! Or is it? Sarah has the research and the big PhD brain to back her statement up. For over a decade, she has dedicated her career to examining the nuances of sexuality as they affect modern relationships. Sarah is a regularly sought-after sex and relationship expert for media outlets including Men’s Health, Fashion Magazine,Elle and Today’s Parent. Her research has been featured in LiveScience, Mic.com, Jezebel, and The Globe and Mail. She authors the blog “Myths of Desire: Rethinking Sex Roles and Expectations that Stifle Relationships” for Psychology Today. As a practicing relationship therapist, she specializes in working with individuals and couples around sexual intimacy concerns. Ok Ok….She has the street cred and social proof from credible media outlets to make a bold statement but let’s listen to her in this awesome interview explain exactly what she means.

Men are not always in the mood….what’s she talking about? Let’s find out together!

www.sarahhuntermurray.com

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Where do we stand as a society on actual scientific research on sexuality? There are three key moments in history that mark genuine milestones in the scientific research of sexuality. First was in 1947, when Alfred Kinsey founded the institute for Sex Research at Indiana University provoking controversy at the time. He is best known for the Kinsey scale which rates ones sexual orientation. The second was in 1957, when William Masters and Virginia Johnson pioneered research into the nature of human sexual response and diagnosis and treatment of sexual disorders and dysfunctions. They recorded some of the first laboratory data on the anatomy and physiology of human sexual response based on direct observation of 382 women and 312 men in what is estimated to be "10,000 complete cycles of sexual response". Their findings on the nature of female sexual arousal and orgasms dispelled many long-standing misconceptions. The third was in 2015, when Nicole Prause Ph.D. founded Liberos a sexual biotechnology company that researches sexual psychophysiology and affective neuroscience using state of the art technology. They study sexual addictions, orgasm physiology and biosignal processing. They measure brainwaves during sex using sophisticated headgear with wires going everywhere and measure contractions in both men and women during orgasms utilizing anal probes. I know what you’re thinking right now….who else uses anal probes?….Aliens…..and aliens have spaceships…..and spaceships are cool. So Nicole Prause must be cool…..and you would be right….she’s SUPER cool.

On our show today, we interview Nicole Prause, Ph.D. (aka Orgasm Warrior) a neuroscientist that founded Liberos, LLC to research human sexual behavior, addiction and the physiology of sexual response. Dr. Prause earned her doctorate at Indiana University with joint supervision by the Kinsey Institude for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction. She was lead author on a study that was the first to apply brain stimulation to alter sexual responsiveness. She also conducted an exceedingly thorough study on women’s preference on penis size. That got your attention. That’s right boys….she knows what women really want in a man….if you know what I mean. Dr. Prause is on the cutting edge of sexual research and asking important questions that have never been asked before. You are going to love this interview with the “Orgasm Warrior” herself, as we explore the science of sex.

www.liberoscenter.com

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What in this world is more difficult than dating? Finding the right person to share your life with is a challenge for anyone no matter how beautiful, rich or talented you are. As Wes Hayden so romantically sang to Jillian Harris on The Bachelorette in 2009 and then the following year on Bachelor Pad to Gia Allemand “Some say Love It Don’t Come Easy”. Of course, he proclaimed to both of these women that he wrote this exact same song for them….UGH….WHAT a sleaze ball. Needless to say, he was not there for the right reason….but I digress. Back to my question….so what’s more difficult than dating? Is it math or quantum physics or maybe it’s figuring out the meaning of life? All of those things are nothing compared to what the real answer is. Are you ready for the answer…..it’s dating as a single parent. I can hear everyone right now saying….that’s right Terah! Dating is tough enough but dating as a single parent is even more difficult. Who wants to waste time away from your kids to go on another bad date that will end up going nowhere? Also it’s one thing if your own heart gets broken but no one wants to destroy your kid’s hearts with a relationship that they were invested in as well. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to read a book that would help single parents and those dating them with scientifically sound advice to help them? Hell YES it would!!

Our guest today Duana Welch, PhD just released her second book in the “Love Factually” series- for single parents. We interviewed Duana for her first book, “Love Factually, 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do”, and it’s our most downloaded episode. We titled that podcast “Scientifically Proven Steps To Love”. So check it out that show after you listen to this one. Duana’s latest book “Love Factually For Single Parents & Those Dating Them” provides single parents with the first guide that relies on science instead of opinion to help this large and growing group of men and women find the right partner not only for themselves, but their families. From getting over your ex to finding time to date, and from finding your partner to blending families, the Single Parents edition of this popular series of books paves the way so we all win at lifetime love. Get comfortable and let’s soak in as much wisdom as we can from Dr. Duana Welch before we all jump onto Amazon and buy her latest “Love Factually” book.

http://lovefactually.co/

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Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor.  Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise?  Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast.  If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious. 

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Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!

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Imagine if you will….making the decision to increase your company’s bottom line by improving your employee’s sex life. That’s right....when your employees or co-workers are having a better sex life their relationships at home will be more fulfilled which will in turn create stronger relationships with their co-workers making them more productive at work. This is why companies from around the world are hiring Sexologists to have multiple day retreats to reignite the passion many of their employees have unfortunately lost at home. This loss of passion usually comes down to stories we write in our heads of the sabotage or ill will our partners are doing to us when they are not. We feel something that is not so and then react in negative ways that are not productive to a healthy relationship. Most of this can be solved with simple techniques to help people understand how to communicate more proactive and not reactive.

Our guest today, Jessica O’Reilly (aka Dr. Jess) is a sexologist that travels around the world working with couples to transform their relationships via her wildly successful “Marriage As A Business” program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Dr. Jess is an accomplished author with three best-selling titles. Her latest, “The New Sex Bible” has received enthusiastic reviews from professionals and clients alike and her first book “Hot Sex Tips, Tricks and Licks” is in its fourth print! She hosts a popular podcast with her husband, Brandon, called Sex With Dr. Jess Podcast that has tons of great topics covered on it like “Single Girl Problems”, “How to be Happy After 51 Years of Marriage”, “Online Infidelity” and much more. She has been featured in pretty much every magazine in the world like Women’s Health, Men’s Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, MAXIM, New York Post, Redbook, Playboy, US Weekly, Elle, Reader’s Digest, HuffPost, Sexy Brilliant….WOW…I’m not even halfway through her list of magazines and I’m worn out but you get the idea. She has also been on a ridiculous amount of TV shows, radio broadcasts and of course excellent podcasts like this one…thank you for listening. Needless to say she knows what she’s talking about and is highly respected in the field of SEX. So sit back and enjoy this fantastic interview with Dr. Jess as we all learn more about how to have a better sex life!

www.sexwithdrjess.com

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Are you single and confused by women? Would you like a guided tour into the mysterious mind of a woman? If you are ready to get out of the “Friend Zone” and into the “End Zone”, we have the podcast for you. Many men spend their entire lives in a fog when it comes to women. They don’t understand how to approach them, pick up on the subtle hints, how to turn them on, how to compliment them; in a nutshell they don’t know what woman really want. Some guys will get frustrated with this and give up. They’ll think that women just want jerks or assholes that treat them like crap or it’s just money they want. Other guys will see woman as a challenge that can be understood with hard work. They’ll see woman as a great adventure like climbing an epic mountain like Mount Everest. Just as you would never climb a dangerous mountain like Mount Everest without an expert guide to help you avoid the major pitfalls and sharp cliffs, a wise man challenging himself to understand women better will also find an expert guide to help avoid the pain and time wasted on unsuccessful dating. If you are the type of man that is ready to step up your game with No-BS dating advice, then sit tight, turn up your volume and get ready to change your dating life.

On today’s show we have Marni Kinrys (aka “Wing Girl”). She is a female dating coach for men that has spent the last decade helping tens of thousands of men go from the “Friend Zone” to the “End Zone”. She has one simple mission…give the good guy the edge. She teaches men everything they need to know about woman especially the important stuff that other women would never want you to know. She created The Wing Girl Method to give men access to the 5% of knowledge that attracts women which no man can ever teach you. How does she know this? One reason is she interviewed 1,000s of woman on what they want and as luck would have it….she is a woman with a vagina. Which would you rather have on your side, another clueless man stumbling around in the dark or a woman with a very bright flashlight leading you every step of the way? I think it’s obvious! She can teach you everything you need to know to attract, date and get any girl you want. What guy doesn’t want that? Hell I am a woman and I want to learn more. Let’s all gain more knowledge from the Wing Girl herself, Marni Kinrys, in this amazing interview.

www.winggirlmethod.com

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Imagine creating a world where all of your dreams came true simply because you opened your mouth. Want a powerful promotion at work, new high paying job, date the most beautifully interesting person you have ever met; merely open your mouth and let the world bend to your will. What if you could have absolute control over the outcome of your life? Would you run towards this power as fast as a cheetah or hide in your protected safe shell like a turtle? If you are the type of person that wants more control of your life, then you’re in luck because we have what you desire. However, I must caution you that this secret superpower does come with a warning. It has been known to be used for evil, causing harm to innocent people. So as Spider-Man was told by his Uncle Ben, “With great power comes great responsibility.” If you can’t handle a power strong enough to thoroughly transform your life into what you want it to be, then you are listening to the wrong podcast. The last thing we want is to provide you with a power you are not ready to embrace. If you are prepared to make this superpower a positive part of your life, you are going to love this interview.

Our guest today, Jeff Tippett (aka Mr. Persuasion), is the author of “Unleashing Your Superpower: Why Persuasive Communication is the Only Force You Will Ever Need”. Jeff is a persuasive communications expert that helps people increase their effectiveness in the art of persuasion. Brands such as Airbnb, The National Restaurant Association, The League of Women Voters, and The League of Conservation have trusted Jeff to develop and implement communications plans to persuade elected officials, the media, and the general public. Jeff has impacted thousands of lives through over 500 presentations including keynotes and seminars. We are so confident in Mr. Persuasion that we are willing to offer you a money back guarantee. If you don’t learn something that improves your powers of persuasion, we will gladly give you back all the money you spent on this podcast plus you will receive a FREE view of our stunning website www.makemorelovenotwar.com. We are the only podcast brave enough to offer this amazing guarantee! All joking aside…you are going to benefit immensely from Mr. Persuasion himself, Jeff Tippett, as he unleashes your superpower right now.

https://jefftippett.com/

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How does one forgive someone that hurt them when they were vulnerable, too young or too weak to fight back? It may feel as if the world is conspiring against you for some strange reason. The pain from this can run so deep that it almost becomes as badge of honor or trophy that feeds your ego with a well earned hatred for this person and what they did to you for years. This hatred can build up for so long that you begin to make it part of you and wonder what it will mean to let it go. You may wonder, “I’m just a victim that allows others to push me around? Am I weak? How can anyone ever love someone like me?” Some people hold on to this victim mentality because they feel this makes the person that hurt them forever lower than them because they now owe them. Therefore, if they forgive they will forever be foregoing what they are owed. In this episode we explore the four pillars that will help you forgive others and yourself to bring you true happiness, joyfulness and freedom to live a better life.

Our guest today, Amy Chuang was born in China and moved to America when she was a teenager which gives her a unique perspective on both Eastern and Western cultures. She has studied many different religions and philosophies which has lead her to the conclusion that they all come down to four pillars; Compassion, Forgiveness, Love and Gratitude. In this podcast, Amy goes into great detail on how you can employ these four pillars in your life to not only forgive but find true freedom from people that have harmed you. The four pillars create the right mental state so you can have a foundation of self-healing that will help you love yourself completely. You will be ready to cut the anchors that have been holding you in your desolate place for so many years. You may need to listen to this podcast more than once because it packed full of powerful wisdom. If you know someone that could benefit from this, be the friend that extends a helping hand and share this podcast. Amy’s advice will sink into your soul making it shine brighter than it ever has before.

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